I thought i fill out a little questions which I found online



Q. Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future.

So what my ideal boyfriend ---> husband would be like.

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He has to be a guy.
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 Doesn't matter what race he is, I do like the fact that having a different race to me it gives a mix culture to the relationship.

⚫ Has to be taller then me, but not too tall 5'5"-5'11".

⚫ Must be my age or older then me, 4 years max. Any older is a big age gap and living in different era. Also don't go out with younger guys, its like dating a kid (it's a mental thing).

⚫ Has to have a good sense of humor (after all laughter is the best medicine).

⚫ He must not be skinner then me (over wise I will feel fat), bit bigger then me but not too big (I like a guy who take care of his health, equals to living longer).

⚫ Good health, exercise and eat well.

⚫ Not afraid to try new things, can be new food/new sports/new skills.

⚫ Like him to learn my native language.

⚫ He must be able to support himself and not to relay on others (nothing wrong with relying on others but if its all the time then its really them supporting him for life). 

⚫ Must know how to cook (I don't believe its a one way thing).

⚫ Not to be materialistic (with brands or this 'in' seasons) but to look decent and well look after. 

⚫ Must be open minded.
⚫ Have compassion (not a robot but not overly emotional).

⚫ To have his own mind rather then act of what others say he should do.

⚫ It be good if he is religious (it build a foundation, set morals to live a happier life).

⚫ He also have to have his set or moral he bind by.

⚫ Must be creative, e.g artistic, musician.

⚫ Go with me to events, even if its geeky or too feminine.

⚫ Make time to celebrate special occasions.

⚫ Have thirst for knowledge.

⚫ Can't be lazy but occasionally he can have some rest day (e.g. his birthday).

⚫ Don't like arrogant, competitive or even possessive guys.

⚫ He must not drink alcohol (body is a temple).

⚫ He must not smoke (same as before, I find it a turn off).

⚫ Don't particularly like guys who swears (I find it if someone cuss its cause they got nothing constructive to say which result to cussing. Don't like it if he calls me any cuss words. It show he don't respect me which leads me not respecting him).

⚫ Must be there for me when I need him.

⚫ He must have his own interest rather then live for me.


⚫ No lying.
⚫ No cheating (phew~ manage to get it up to 30!)
⚫ Oh and also to have some what manliness, can't be camp (its ok if a friend is that why but not bf, no camp poses!!).
⚫ Oh and also can't be afraid of inserts, can't date a wuss (i need someone to remove spiders from my house).

I know what it seen like.. 'hey your not asking much eh?' I know that in life we don't get our ideal guy and we make do with what we have. Too often we try to mold them to the ideal guy we want. Sometime its not a bad thing to better ourselves or them. But in some cases you can not change the way a person is, that's who they are. I been with unsuccessful relationships in the past, cause I had no preferences. But later I realise they wasn't right for me. Some of the haves and mustn't have is from experience. Reason why its a long list is cause I try to round it up to 30!!